For some reason, especially after the criticism that I got from some "Anonymous", I've been feeling the need to clarify what I'm trying to do here on my blog.
I am not a Female MRA/MGTOW groupie. If you are coming here to find all censure of women and all praise of men, than go to an MRA blog. I am not going to be one of those women who cow-tow to prejudiced male opinion because I feel some kind of "Female Guilt".
I am not a Feminist. I will and have spoken to great length of my adverse opinion of Feminism. I do not do this because I think they have done some horrendous offense to men - I started this blog before I even knew what MRA/MGTOW was, before I knew how much fathers struggled in custody cases, and before I had any sympathy for single men who blew me off because I wasn't good enough for them.
I am a Christian. I write against Feminism because I believe it is against the word of God. And holding such a view, I will write and focus what I write against feminism towards that regard. Anti-Biblical.
Because I try to base my criticisms of Feminism biblically, I will also be highly critical of men - because they suffer from the same epidemic of humanity that women suffer from - SIN.
I will not be nice to men because they are so brutally treated by women. I will be nice to them out of their own right and because they are human - but I am not going to sit here and pretend that they are incapable of injustice, wrong-doing, abuse, greed, and pride.
I will, as an attempt to witness to any woman who stumbles across this blog, to provide a balanced background - which includes acknowledging struggles that women of history may have faced - but to always bring my readers to the point that God put in place a certain order for the world and how that can bring women peace and happiness in following it.
I have not always done a good job on this, I am not always focused on this, but that was my vision when I started this blog.
So any man that comes here and thinks I'm being too harsh on men because men are the victims here, I'll tell you to go and read your blogs on what you have to say about "White Guilt" and Black Victimization and take a real critical look at how you view yourself.
5 comments:
"I will not be nice to men because they are so brutally treated by women. I will be nice to them out of their own right and because they are human..."
Well, it's nice to know that you ascribe some value to humanity, because it's obvious you attribute absolutely no value to manhood. Do you realize how unreasonable it is to ask men to respect and honor women and femininity while you refuse to grant even the most paltry amount of sympathy to men who have been abused (if you apply the standards of "domestic violence" to women) by women?
Do you realize what that makes you sound like? Do you really want to sound like a bigot?
"- but I am not going to sit here and pretend that they are incapable of injustice, wrong-doing, abuse, greed, and pride."
First of all, no one says men are incapable of wrongdoing. There are lots of bad men, you see them in the news all the time. What you don't see,however, are the millions more good men going about their daily routines. They don't make any noise or fuss, they mind their own business and keep doing their jobs,day in and day out, so they are invisible. The only way you would even know they exist is because society keeps ticking along, they only become visible if they STOP BEING GOOD MEN. Or at the least, abandon their posts.
Second, pride in genuine accomplishments is not only ok, but is healthy and the basis for self-esteem. There's nothing wrong with being proud if you are doing good or productive things,which the vast majority of men are.
Well, it's nice to know that you ascribe some value to humanity, because it's obvious you attribute absolutely no value to manhood
You have no idea who I am to make a statement like that. You sound like another commenter here before he read my entire blog. Why don't you try that and then get back to me.
Christina,
You wouldn't be alluding to ME now, would you?
MarkyMark
Mark,
Of course not!
Whatever made you think that?
=p
Because I don't know of another reader who, in recent times (the last year or so), who actually read much of what you had to say and ended up eating some crow as a result...
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